Thursday, July 08, 2010

Reaching the thresholds

Having 2 kids at home is more fun and actually takes most of your attention. Indulging in their innocence gives the fun that you will never get anywhere else. And some times that becomes the most difficult part of your life.

Some of my experiences:
1. When it is too difficult for me to manage "Abhi", i tell him, you are making me see "stars" in the day time, his response is "Where are they?,Can I see them"?

2.Abhi doesn't care about the physics or chemistry rules. He thinks everything in this world is mutable.He cuts chocolate into 2 pieces and then orders you to make join it, making it as it was before.

3. When the sky is dark, and I ask him, where is the moon, don't know where he leart, but says "Mummy shouted at him, so he ran away". Similar answer why starts don't appear.

4. He strongly believes, there is reason for everything, he always asks "why" for everything.

5. He always overrides everything else, I stopped logging onto computer at home. Taking him to school, feeding him are the most difficult tasks. Also making him sleep when he is sick. He is very good at creating sleepless nights for me and my wife when he is sick.

Of course you also get a chance to blog something like this post.:-).

Children are good at exploiting the limitations of the parents. You may think you have too much of patience and will never shout at any one, your kid can prove it wrong.
They are very good at making you understand your "Threshold limits".

But the fun you get with kids overrides all other feelings. Children are you blessings and not your responsibilities. The time you spend with kids is more helpful to you to get away from any stress you may have. Of course, overdoing the job also will put you in trouble. My son wants to go to "office" every morning rather than to "play school", not sure what kind of job he has.:-).

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